Relationships
>> Wednesday, September 26, 2007
I feel so sad to see relationships espically long term ones breaking.
Love is such a complicated subject. People fall in love when they least expect it and people who have been in love suddenly find that they dont love each other and fall in love with someone else.
A few years ago I wouldve frowned at the thought of an extra marital affair. But not anymore.
Love happens. Yes it does even after youve had a love marriage. It happens even after you know that you have grown up children and should not love anyone but your husband. You fall in love with the most unlikely person for the most unlikely reasons. It also seems impractical and silly to you, but you cannot help but love that person.
You suddenly realise that you love someone more than anyone else even after being away for him/her for years together. Yes, there are other people in your life, and though they are nice, no one is quite like that person whom youve probably spoken just a couple of times ago. And you could do anything to be with him/her at that moment.
Yes, love happens when you are past forty with grown up children but you are chatting with that person on phone for hours together just like a teenager and dont feel silly about it.
Someone comes to you one fine day and says that theyve been in love with you since the last so many years but were just too scared to tell you at that time. But after all these years they have still not stopped loving you. This, even though you are with someone else now. You then wonder if maybe things wouldve been different if they had told you this years ago.
Love happens even though you are already in love with someone else and want both of them. But you know that you have to choose anyone but dont want to hurt either.
Someone loves you but you have absolutely no felings for that person even thought hes a gem of a person and you feel guilty because you cannot be as nice to him as he is to you.
You love someone even though you know that he is in love with someone and does not even know that you exist.
And you are still in love with that person even though the relationship has ended a long time ago.....
Love is such a complicated subject. People fall in love when they least expect it and people who have been in love suddenly find that they dont love each other and fall in love with someone else.
A few years ago I wouldve frowned at the thought of an extra marital affair. But not anymore.
Love happens. Yes it does even after youve had a love marriage. It happens even after you know that you have grown up children and should not love anyone but your husband. You fall in love with the most unlikely person for the most unlikely reasons. It also seems impractical and silly to you, but you cannot help but love that person.
You suddenly realise that you love someone more than anyone else even after being away for him/her for years together. Yes, there are other people in your life, and though they are nice, no one is quite like that person whom youve probably spoken just a couple of times ago. And you could do anything to be with him/her at that moment.
Yes, love happens when you are past forty with grown up children but you are chatting with that person on phone for hours together just like a teenager and dont feel silly about it.
Someone comes to you one fine day and says that theyve been in love with you since the last so many years but were just too scared to tell you at that time. But after all these years they have still not stopped loving you. This, even though you are with someone else now. You then wonder if maybe things wouldve been different if they had told you this years ago.
Love happens even though you are already in love with someone else and want both of them. But you know that you have to choose anyone but dont want to hurt either.
Someone loves you but you have absolutely no felings for that person even thought hes a gem of a person and you feel guilty because you cannot be as nice to him as he is to you.
You love someone even though you know that he is in love with someone and does not even know that you exist.
And you are still in love with that person even though the relationship has ended a long time ago.....
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